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Intimacy Concierge for Couples
Oh, the anticipation.
A members-only experience that turns intimacy into a ritual. Every month: a curated scene, a real human concierge in your pocket, and premium goodies, delivered discreetly to your door.
Trusted & loved by more than 300,000 people
Free shipping on multi-month plans
A R Y A
Find your couple's first Scene.
Short quiz · No email
You identify as:
Man
Woman
Transgender
Queer or Non-binary
Other
Which of these best describes your relationship?
Straight
Gay
Queer
Other
How long have you been together?
Less than a year
1–5 years
6–10 years
11–20 years
More than 21 years
Do you have kids at home?
Yes – little ones, no downtime
Yes – older ones
No kids
Expecting or trying
Why am I here?
We'll ask your partner later too, if you invite them.
To break the routine and be more playful
We care about each other, but feel like roommates, not lovers
We (or just me) want to go even bolder
We're struggling
Why am I here?
We'll ask your partner later too, if you invite them.
Our sex life is a bit boring
Pleasure is more than penetration, right?
I want to bring some toys into the bedroom
Talking about what turns us on (foreplay, roleplay, etc.)
What are you most excited or curious to try?
Pick up to 3. Your Concierge will know you better based on this.
Select up to 3
Anything else sparks your interest?
Pick up to 3 more, if you like.
Select up to 3
How satisfied are you with your sex life?
Not verySomewhatVery satisfied
How close do you currently feel to your partner?
How do you think your partner would answer?
Probably different
Same thing
We've got you!
86% of couples discovered new and pleasurable ways to explore intimacy and eroticism.
Your Concierge
Mood setters & turn-ons
Guided tutorials
The right products
Thanks for sharing honestly!
Wouldn't it be great if an expert helped you bring all this to your relationship?
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Your first Scene
Sense & Sensuality.
Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance your sexual satisfaction.
Collection · The Art of Touch
Extended Foreplay
Pleasure Mapping
Sensation Play
Your concierge tailors each step. Your first Scene unlocks in 2–5 days.
A R Y A · M A T C H E D
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In their words
Loved by 300,000+people.
We could write all the marketing copy in the world. Or we could just let our members talk.
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Joining the exclusive Arya community has been a game-changer for us. It's the secret to deepening our connection and exploring our sexuality in ways we never thought possible.
Jason
41 · Austin, TX
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My husband's reaction when our first Scene started… ‘babe, where did this come from?... OMG!'
Rebecca
34 · Boulder, CO
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Watching someone I have so much love and respect for try something outside of her comfort zone was such a turn-on!
Mike
41 · San Diego, CA
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Arya has helped establish a healthy and fun way to communicate with my partner about what we each prefer.
Dylan
39 · NJ
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Arya is our little secret to keeping our sex life exciting and intimate. We're so grateful to be part of the exclusive community.
Veronica
48 · Tampa, FL
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Joining the exclusive Arya community has been a game-changer for us.
Jason
41 · Austin, TX
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‘Babe, where did this come from?'
Rebecca
34 · Boulder, CO
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Watching her step outside her comfort zone was such a turn-on.
Mike
41 · San Diego, CA
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A healthy, fun way to talk to my partner about what we each prefer.
Dylan
39 · NJ
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Arya is our little secret.
Veronica
48 · Tampa, FL
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Our Sense and Sensuality play was off the charts. We loved the texts, stories, anticipation, and build up.
Michael
57 · Portland, OR
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Love how the Scene allowed us to both safely open up to trying new things, without pressure or awkwardness.
Rachel
26 · Aurora, CO
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More than the toys, it was the increased intimacy, our ability to trust each other, and that spirit of playfulness together.
Carlos
44 · Seattle, WA
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This year me and my partner set a goal to have more sex, and Arya is definitely helping make it way more fun!
Aisha
42 · Orlando, FL
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My husband was surprised at how much he liked being the focus. We both love it when he takes the lead, but this was lovely for us both.
Emily
30 · Arlington, TX
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Our Sense and Sensuality play was off the charts.
Michael
57 · Portland, OR
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The Scene let us safely open up.
Rachel
26 · Aurora, CO
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Increased intimacy, deeper trust, and a spirit of playfulness.
Carlos
44 · Seattle, WA
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Arya is definitely making sex way more fun.
Aisha
42 · Orlando, FL
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Lovely for us both.
Emily
30 · Arlington, TX
A new way to play
Everything you need to shake things up.
Three pillars
Every Arya membership is built around three pillars, each designed to make intimacy easier to talk about, more thrilling to live, and more deliberate to schedule.
Always on
01 · Concierge
Your personal Concierge.
Stop guessing what gets your partner in the mood. Let your Concierge figure it out for you. Available anytime, completely confidential.
Scenes are guided, interactive journeys for two: written guidance, audio-erotica, and the right premium items, woven into a ritual you can actually follow. Some are flirty, some go deeper. All of them feel real.
Collection · The Art of TouchPreview the scene
Sense & Sensuality.
Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance your sexual satisfaction.
Extended ForeplayPleasure MappingSensation Play
Collection · Own Your PleasurePreview the scene
Delay & Obey.
Explore each other's pleasure zones and discover innovative, playful ways to keep your moments exciting and erotic.
Sexual AdventureSensual DiscoveryPleasure Zones
Collection · Erotic ExpressionPreview the scene
Playful Discoveries.
Share your innermost desires and connect by leaning into each other's sexual communication styles.
A personal, confidential companion in your pocket. Part guide, part muse. AI helps you brainstorm; real sex educators step in when it matters. Always thoughtful, never weird.
Real humansWhen it matters most
AnonymousUse a nickname
AnytimeChat whenever
Anonymous & private
Use a nickname. We never share or sell your data.
Anytime, anywhere
Chat whenever inspiration, or doubt, strikes.
Judgement-free
Different desires? Awkward questions? We've got you.
Real human experts
When it matters, a sex educator picks up the chat.
The Box
Premium goodies, delivered discreetly.
Every Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. Premium items selected to elevate your scene experience. We offer unbranded packaging for an additional fee, so your delivery stays exactly that: yours.
Sexologists, sociologists, relationship psychologists, and erotica writers. Every Scene is built on proven, science-backed methods, shaped by people who've spent careers studying connection.
Author & Sociologist
Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz
Renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington. Featured expert on "Married at First Sight."
Relationship Psychologist
Dr. Yael Doron
Founder of Zugot Institute, expert in relationship therapy, on Israel's "Married at First Sight."
Head of Relationship Research
Nicholas Velotta
Doctoral student at UW, specializing in research on sexuality, relationships, gender and couple dynamics.
Sex Copywriter
Athena Gayle
Sextech copywriter specialized in sexual wellness and adult brands, advocating for positive sex lives.
Erotica Author & Writer
Karolina Wilde
Journalist, fantasy romance author of "House of Pain," and sex-positive freelance writer.
Membership
Simple plans. Endless nights.
Plans start as low as $29.95/month when billed annually. Every plan includes both partner accounts, concierge support, guided content, mood-setters, scenes, and curated products shipped to your home.
For the full experience and best results, we recommend committing to at least 3 months.
Behind the Scenes
Close the door, dim the lights.
BTS is the place to find answers to your most vulnerable, intimate questions, and to discover new ways to deepen intimacy through erotic exploration with your partner.
What's included in Arya's membership? Is it just a subscription box?
Arya's membership gives you a new guided scene every month, each one designed to help you explore your desires and spark a deeper connection with your partner. Every scene includes written guidance, educational videos, and premium items that arrive with your box and support the experience. You also get a personal concierge you can chat with anytime. They support you along the way, answer your questions, and help you navigate your intimate life with confidence. Honestly, like anything physical or emotional, it's hard to capture the feeling in words. The real magic starts when you try it together.
How much does it cost?
Plans start as low as $29.95 per month when billed annually, with 1-, 3-, and 6-month plans also available. The price includes both partner accounts. For the full experience and best results, we recommend committing to at least 3 months. Every plan includes concierge support, guided content, mood-setters, scenes, and curated products shipped to your home.
Is your packaging discreet?
We offer unbranded packaging for an additional fee. The shipping label (the white sticker on the box that shows who sent it and who will receive it) will still list our office as the sender.
Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?
Yes. You can use a nickname, and your info stays private. We never share or sell your data. It's just you, your partner, and your concierge.
Does Arya use AI or real humans to answer my questions?
We use both, on purpose. Arya's AI helps guide, suggest, and gently nudge when you're exploring ideas, seeking inspiration, or navigating lighter questions. When things become more personal, emotionally charged, or nuanced, a real human expert steps in. AI supports the journey, real experts step in where it matters most.
I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy. Can you help with that?
This is why Arya exists. We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. We'll give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
My partner and I are into different things. Will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya helps you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about them. If your partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa), we'll help you find ways to explore them that benefit both of you.
Is Arya only for couples?
Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.
Do I get to choose my box items each month?
Nope. Your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They select premium products to elevate your scene experience.
You keep mentioning the word "Scenes". What does it mean?
Scenes are guided, interactive journeys for two. Each Scene includes step-by-step guidance, audio-erotica playlists, and carefully chosen items to support your exploration. They blend meaningful conversation, moments of reflection, and playful challenges that help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some go deeper, but all of them feel real and designed to bring you closer.
We've been together for so long, what can we possibly gain from Arya?
Sexual adventure! 1 in 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventurous. The best way to spice up the bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences. Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.
Ready to play?
Start with the quiz.
A fresh perspective on your sexual connection, with yourself and your partner. A few short questions, then we'll do the rest. Try a sample right here.
